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Our Story: March Of Dimes

Dear Friends,

In the spring of 2012, we formed a Family Team to help the March of Dimes raise money for Moms and Babies. Our Team's name is Wendo:In Memory of Aria.

We formed our team in honor of our daughter Aria, who was born 20 weeks too soon and passed away a few hours after birth. Not only did we lose our daughter on October 11, 2008, Cole, at the age of 6, lost his sister. As heart breaking as it was to lose Aria, we need to celebrate the lives of Cole, Athena and Alexa who were also premature. Without medical interventions while pregnant and then later in the NICU, Athena and Alexa may not have survived either.

By sharing our story, we hope to remind everyone of the urgency of the mission of the March of Dimes and inspire our friends and family to join or donate to our team.

We hope to make this an annual tradition.

Hope to see you spring 2013!!

Sincerely,

~Team Wendo

2013!

For the 2013 fundraising season, Team Wendo has been chosen to represent the Northeast Region as the Ambassador family. We are honored and hope that we will be as successful as 2012 in our fundraising efforts.

For you my sweet Aria

The Conversation stopped, with someone you knew, someone who was growing inside of you. You barely said hey, you barely said hi, now you say the opposite your saying Goodbye.Saying Goodbye exists to say, you can say more than Hi or Hey. You can finish the chat, you can finish the talk, you can celebrate the life lived all too short. To say goodbye is something to say, to finish the conversation in your own little way, to say we will remember you every single day. We treasure you and love you. Although the conversation was cut short, I am glad that we had the chance to talk. If anything has been learned or anything been taught, it is that we will never regret the time that we talked.

2014

2014
MOD 2014

Wendo 2013

Wendo 2013
2nd Year March for Babies

Wendo 2012

Wendo 2012
1st Year March for Babies

Sunday, May 19, 2013

5-19-13 March for Babies

The Memorial Garden: Each flag represents a baby lost. Remembering my Aria!!
Today was the big day!

The March of Dimes has provided 75 years of support for research, treatments, educational and prenatal programs that has saved lives, reduced the suffering and improved the quality of life for countless children and the parents who love them.  I hold a carnation to honor my daughter Aria. However, the 3 preemies who stand beside me today are success stories and a wonderful example of what March of Dimes efforts have accomplished. We want to thank you for coming out today to support such an important cause.

 Dr. Ravi Agarwal, from Geisinger Health System and I were sporting our "Club 39" hats for being top fundraisers. 

If you have the misfortune of needing a doctor in a NICU, Dr. Agarwal is the man you want.  







My Wendo Warrior Shirt won FIRST PLACE for best shirt!!!!
Super Hero Ninja Frank-

Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Times Leader Article

There are some errors in the article. 
I was placed on bed rest at17 weeks but had Aria at 20 weeks gestation. I am not sure that the author fully grasps pregnancy complications and/or prematurity.  As a person, I am healthiest when I am pregnant so I am not thrilled with this wording "despite Nicole’s best efforts to be healthy. The longest term baby was 35 weeks."  Despite being healthy and every intervention currently known in the medical field, they could not keep me pregnant.  


http://www.timesleader.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?avis=TL&date=20130512&category=news&lopenr=305129878&Ref=AR&source=RSS

WILKES-BARRE TWP. – Celebrating its 75th anniversary, the March of Dimes will continue the organization’s tradition of research to promote healthier babies by holding a fundraiser walk called March for Babies on Sunday.

Founded in 1938 by President Franklin D. Roosevelt to fund the fight against polio, the March of Dimes is a nonprofit organization that works to improve the health of mothers and their babies.

The March for Babies will be held at King’s College’s Betzler Field in Wilkes-Barre Township. Registration begins at 9 a.m. and the walk starts at 10.

After the walk, the day will feature family fun, including refreshments, entertainment, activities for children, and much more.

The longest running walk-a-thon began in the 1970s as a way to raise proceeds for research to prevent premature births, prenatal wellness programs, research grants, neonatal intensive care units, and family support programs.

Last year the walk-a-thon raised $130,000 nationally, said Deborah Pollock, executive director of the March of Dimes.

The March of Dimes has yielded health advances that have decreased infant deaths from infectious diseases and birth defects, said Pollock.

After experiencing four premature births and one infant death, the Wendolowski family, of Peckville, knows the importance of these health advancements.

Chosen by the March of Dimes as the family ambassador for the local event, the Wendolowskis have taken their role seriously.

“It is surprising not a lot of people know what they do,” Nicole Wendolowski said, referring to the organization.

With various fundraisers planned throughout surrounding areas, she hopes to raise awareness of the March of Dimes as well as funding for her family’s team, Team Wendo in Memory of Aria.

Aria was the family’s second child, born at 17 weeks. Aria lived for two hours after birth. Her memory is still strong and is a driving force for Team Wendo.

“The March of Dimes gives me a positive way to deal with the negative,” Nicole said.

The Wendolowskis now have three children: Cole, 11, Athena, 3, and Alexa, 2. All were born prematurely, despite Nicole’s best efforts to be healthy. The longest term baby was 35 weeks.

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Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Mother's Day Bakesale 2013!

Cookies & Cream

Scratch Angel Food

Mother's Day Cupcake Flowers

Baking up a storm!


Carrot Spice

Red Velvet Chip

Cherry Chip

Strawberry Lemonade

Pina Colada

Rocky Road



Vanilla Lemon Zest filled with Lemon and Cream Cheese Icing

Chocolate Caramel

Key Lime

Pistachio


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Wednesday, May 8, 2013

ThredUp

Do you have womens' or childrens' gently used clothing taking up space that you need to get rid of??

Join my group to raise money for the March of Dimes.
Group link: http://thred.me/17cWyWd 

 This is an online consignment store. It is a great place to shop for brand name clothes from the comfort of your home. 

 

Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Valley View Intermediate Center

May 1 -- May 10, Valley View Intermediate students are collecting dimes. 

In 1938, at the end of the Depression, President Franklin D. Roosevelt went on the radio and asked everyone to send a dime to the White House. American families responded, sending in millions of dimes to help defeat polio.

The classroom that “fills” the most dime wrappers will receive a special 75th Birthday celebration.
More than 4 million babies were born in the United States last year and the March of Dimes helped each and every one through 75 years of research, education, vaccines and breakthroughs. Let’s work together as we celebrate 75 years of stronger, healthier babies.

Thursday, May 2, 2013

Great Wolf Lodge May 1

Great Wolf was loads of fun for children and adults of all ages and stages.







3 babies,1 Star-My Angel

When I was 25 I lived in Brooklyn, had a wonderful OBGYN, and became pregnant with my first baby. After 9-11, I moved back to Pennsylvania and this is where my story begins.

Our First Baby: Surprise it is a boy!

At 25, what does a person know about being pregnant? I really didn't know what to expect.


Around the 20th week of pregnancy, I started having pain. Because it was early into the pregnancy, I was seen by an emergency room doctor. I was sent home because I was not dilated; however, I was never placed on a monitor. I was told that UTI's can cause horrific pain. Thankfully, I made it to 34 weeks when I started having that "UTI" pain again. I thought, not again!" When I used the bathroom, there was a trace amount of blood so I decided to go to the hospital. Thank goodness for the blood, otherwise, I may have had Cole at home. When I arrived at the hospital, I was 9cm dilated. It was too late to stop the labor and too late for medication. Within two hours of arriving to the hospital, my son was born on 2/17/02. He stayed in the NICU until 3/3/02. I know now that I was in labor much earlier with Cole.

Our 2nd Pregnancy In 2008, I became pregnant again. I was so excited. The excitement would soon turn to fear and worry. At 8 weeks, I started bleeding and thought I was having a miscarriage. The baby still had a heartbeat and the reason for the bleeding was unknown. For the next few months, I experienced bouts of bleeding. I felt as though something was wrong but the doctors could not find anything. At 17 weeks my amniotic fluid was low, I was placed on complete bedrest by the Maternal and Fetal Specialist.

Needless to say, my gut instinct was right. There was something terribly wrong. I went to the hospital on October 11 because I was having contractions. The doctor said," I am sorry but I think you are going to have the baby tonight." In my heart, I already knew this. I will leave the details of the birth out, but you can read them on my other blog.


She was so tiny and fragile. However, she lived for two hours following birth, which is miraculous for a baby her size. I wish someone would have suggested that I take a picture with her. I was in shock and getting pictures of my tiny baby was the furthest thing from my mind. The pictures that I have do not reflect how small she was. Her little hand grasped my pinky. Her foot was only an inch long.

Words cannot accurately describe feelings as you hold your dying baby. You are totally helpless and in a state of shock. Then reality hits, the baby that you carried for twenty weeks is gone. You can hear babies crying and sounds of joy and laughter from the rooms down the hall. Sadly, in your room, there is only sadness and loss. Lives forever changed.......

What if? What if the doctor didn't send me home the day before? What if my body could have held her until 24 weeks of gestation?

March of Dimes conducts critical research that helps Moms carry their baby to term. The March of Dimes research would help me during my next two pregnancies.

3rd Pregnancy

At this point, it is a known fact that I have problems carrying babies. I began seeing the Maternal and Fetal Specialists from Lehigh Valley Hospital. I set goals or mini milestones for the pregnancy. First lets make it to 12 weeks- celebrate. Next 24 weeks because a baby can be saved with medical intervention. Then 28 weeks because the survival rate triples from 24. Finally, 32 weeks because that is what the NICU doctors hope for.

From the beginning of the pregnancy, I began taking aspirin, and a few weeks in, I began taking hydroxyprogesterone 17, a weekly injection to prevent preterm labor. You can read more. http://www.marchofdihttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/17-

Hydroxyprogesteronemes.com/news/feb4_2011.html

In addition, My cervix was measured every two weeks to watch for any changes. Despite these interventions, I went into labor at 28 weeks after discovering I had gestational diabetes. Thankfully, labor was stopped with various medications. At this time, I had steroids to quicken the baby's lung development and I started taking insulin 4X per day to get my sugar under control. Because of my diabetes, I had an excess of amniotic fluid and the baby seemed to be growing faster than she should.


Despite the obstacles, this was the longest that I ever been pregnant! A full 35 weeks; woohoo! Athena needed to spend time in the NICU because of her glucose/ sugar. Once her glucose was regulated, she was able to come back to my hospital room. This was the only normal aspect of my pregnancy.




4th & Last Pregnancy:

This pregnancy was truly an unexpected surprise. Because of all the meds used to treat me in my last pregnancy, they were unable to do much. I did take aspirin daily, weekly injections of hydroproxyprogesterone, had my cervix measured every two weeks, got steroid shots for lung development at 24 weeks. Yet, at 26 weeks, I had a positive fetal fibronectin http://www.marchofdimes.com/pregnancy/pretermlabor_fetalfibronectin.html, which means you can possibly go into labor at any moment.

By 27 weeks, I was fully effaced and because of the positive test the week before, I was placed directly in the hospital for complete bedrest. The NICU doctor came to speak to me and explained all the potential problems of having a baby this early.

I set a goal of 32 weeks. I tried to stay as positive as possible believing that each day that I spent in bed was one less day Alexa would spend in the NICU. This was not an easy task with Cole and an infant at home. However, I made it to 31 weeks!! I impressed the doctors with my spirit and will power. They could not believe that I stayed pregnant as long as I did.


We will always have our light. The shining star lighting our way. We will be together again one day.